Remember when a quick
visit to the gym or swipe of Nars Blush in orgasm was all it took to make us
feel cute? When we recovered from a late night, no problemo? Oh, that feeling
of eternal life — and effortless beauty — was the nectar of the gods back in
our 20s and 30s. Then something happened…We hit our 40s. Somehow we didn’t heal
as well, or bounce back as quickly. We started to realize that effortless beauty
wasn’t quite so well, effortless anymore.
Everybody talks about aging, but once we reach our 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, reality starts to set in. We watch our parents hit their 80s and 90s, and are confronted with the painful realization of mortality. Anyone who practices knows that yoga helps us lead saner, more balanced lives. Quite simply yoga makes us better people, and more accepting of life's ups and downs. But did you also know that yoga can keep us healthier for longer and in a sense, suspend the aging process?
Recent scientific
research shows that practicing yoga and mediation on a regular basis can help our
bodies age more graceful and yes — slowly. Not to go all Dr. Sanja Gupta on
you, but inside
the nucleus of a cell, our genes are arranged along twisted, double-stranded
molecules of DNA called Chromosomes. At the ends of the Chromosomes are
stretches of DNA called Telomeres… Stay with me… almost to the good part!
Telomeres
have been compared with the plastic tips on shoelaces, because they keep Chromosome
ends from fraying and sticking to each other. Smoking makes your Telomeres
shorter, as does emotional stress and lack of exercise. Conversely, a regular
yoga and meditation practice — and the accompanying healthy lifestyle including
nutrition, etc., can actually prevent our telomeres from shrinking and
help us live longer.
Okay, so yoga can help us
live longer (Yay!) but can it also help us deal with the psychological effects
of aging? Can it help us look in the mirror and realize that aging can be
beautiful? The answer is YES!
I want to share an
epiphany I had lately. Full Disclaimer: It’s taken me a while to get to this
point, but recently I looked in the mirror at my chin. I analyzed it and
studied it. Well yes, it is sagging a bit, and in fact, I would stay underneath
my chin is a double chin. Shoot – where did
that come from? I do not remember
ordering this from Pottery Barn? How do I send this Waddle Back? And then, I
thought: do I really want to blow five grand to get rid of this not-as-tight-and-supple
50 something-year-old chin? Or, do I want to age gracefully, and not try to
look 35 or even 45 anymore? Tough
decision!
I answered the later. The
moment of surrender was actually freeing. Aging is a part of living and
certainly letting go of our control over “how we look” — our perceived beauty.
It’s time for all us
yogini’s to look in the mirror and finally start to love what we see—even if it
is a little baggy, saggy, wrinkly. So go ahead and embrace 40, 50, 60, 70, 80,
90! Celebrate your good points, don’t obsess on the imperfections! Sport that
red bikini like Helen Mirren. Whatever you do, commit to the mat! Your
cheeks will get a nice flush, and you’ll look healthy and alive. You
can’t buy that from any plastic surgeon.
With Love and Aging Naturally,
Cindy
I love this! It's so true that as we age, it becomes more about the whole person, and less about looks. I would rather hang with a really fun, adventurous, interesting person who brings something to the table than a freaky looking, face lifted person clinging to their youth. xo
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